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By Clayton Cranford
Cyber Safety Cop

On Dec. 10, Apple released iOS 13.3, allowing parents for the first time to set limits over who their kids can talk to during certain hours of the day. These limits will apply to phone calls, Messages, and FaceTime. Parents can also set limitations on calls and messaging during the child’s permitted screen time and their downtime hours.

A new option, Communication Limits, can be found under Screen Time in Settings. Parents are rightly concerned that a total stranger can contact their child via Messages, phone, or FaceTime. 

With this update, parents can set their child’s device so that during allowed screen time, the child can be contacted by everyone or only by people in their contacts, thus preventing strangers from reaching them. During Downtime, parents can choose to allow their child to either be contacted by everyone or only by designated contacts.

This means parents could limit a child’s ability to texting friends late at night or during the school day by scheduling Downtime to run.

Communication Limits also allows parents to manage their child’s iCloud contacts remotely, which makes it easier for parents to share essential numbers with their child and be aware of who their child is communicating with. This feature puts parents in full control of their child’s contact list, so only they can edit it.

If you haven’t enabled Parental Controls and Screen Time limits on your child’s iOS device, we have an article ( to help walk you through the process.

Parents have complained that their child has figured out loopholes to their iPhone parental controls. Check out this article ( for a list of tactics children are using to get around screen time limits and how to counter them.

A workaround to the new screen time control was been identified by Cyber Safety Cop on Dec. 12. See the following article:

Clayton Cranford is a Sergeant in a Southern California law enforcement agency and owner of Clayton is one of the nation’s leading educators on social media, child safety, and behavioral threat assessments. Clayton is the author of the definitive book on cyber safety for families, “Parenting in the Digital World,” available on