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Death, a step we all will experience

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The Rev. Maria Dancing Heart Hoaglund will discuss death and life as part of the Idyllwild Community Center Speaker Series at 6 p.m., Thursday, April 10, at the Creekstone Inn. Photo courtesy of Rev. Maria Dancing Heart Hoaglund
The Rev. Maria Dancing Heart Hoaglund will discuss death and life as part of the Idyllwild Community Center Speaker Series at 6 p.m., Thursday, April 10, at the Creekstone Inn.
Photo courtesy of Rev. Maria Dancing Heart Hoaglund

Death, except for in obituaries, is usually an event or process we normally do not discuss. But death is a part of the life cycle, and its process is the topic of the next Idyllwild Community Center Speaker Series.

The Rev. Maria Dancing Heart Hoaglund of Sedona, Ariz., said, “In this day and age, [death] is a major challenge,” whether for the individual entering this transition or their family.

Hoaglund, a former hospice worker, has encountered many people struggling with this issue as well as the actual process of dying. Some are skeptical; some are open to learning more. She speaks to both groups.

The fear of death is widespread, she said, even in Japan, where she was born and raised until college at Yale and her master’s degree in divinity from Chicago Theological Seminary. “There is a dread of death,” she stated. “People have difficulty believing what they can’t see, but mystical things can happen.”

About five years after her mother’s death while working in hospice, Hoaglund experienced a connection with her mother that has gradually shaped her life. It was this realization that people don’t have to fear death she shares through her talks.

A few cultures recognized that step as a “going home.” From her hospice and personal experience, Hoaglund helps individuals accept what is coming.

Hoaglund’s book, ‘The Last Adventure of Life.’
Hoaglund’s book, ‘The Last Adventure of Life.’

Generally, she says, the individual is more accepting of the process than their family, who does not want to let go or fears the future.

“The remaining ones often say they now realize they don’t have to be afraid of death,” she said. “If they walk alongside they can experience the transition. It’s a very gentle, gradual process.”

Some individuals are angry; the suddenness and unexpectedness of the situation surprises them.

“The Native American and many other traditions, even quantum physics, acknowledge death as part of the cycle. In physics, everything is energy, which can’t be destroyed, only transformed,” Hoaglund said.

“We must all face our death one day. The sooner we can come to terms with the most important event of our life the better,” says Hoaglund.

Her talk starts at 6 p.m. Thursday, April 10, at the Creekstone Inn. A reception begins at 5:30 p.m.

 

‘Shop local • read local • give local’

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Editor’s note: The headline is Rollie Atkinson’s own slogan. Atkinson, publisher of the Sonoma West Publishers in Healdsburg, gave the Town Crier permission to reprint this editorial published in the Healdsburg Tribune. I couldn’t have said it better.

Did you have your cup of coffee this morning on your way to work? How much did it cost? A buck, $1.50, two dollars? And, to think a cup of java or “joe” used to cost two bits (25 cents) not that long ago.

Is there anything you can buy for just a couple of quarters anymore? Well, how about this newspaper? Fifty cents for all this local news, grocery ads, school announcements, events and business calendar and all these words, ink and paper? How could that only cost 50 cents?

We’re glad you asked. Now we’ll tell you how we do it. First of all, subscription prices only pay for the cost of delivery. All of our other essential revenue comes from selling advertising. We hope this doesn’t come as a surprise to anyone, but we don’t charge for the news, except for the 50-cent cover charge. That means we don’t charge to send a reporter to a meeting. There is no photographer’s fee for publishing all those local youth sports photos, ribbon cuttings and breaking news images on the front page. We print dozens of local press releases in the newspaper every week for free and we publish items like local obituaries, police logs, weather charts and government updates that are not available anywhere else — at any price.

Our editors and other staff often listen to as many citizen complaints as does the mayor, police chief or school principal. We think listening to our readers is a big part of our job. First we listen, then we tell the story. No extra charge.

As you might imagine, we are extremely grateful for all the local advertising support we continue to receive. We keep the presses rolling and the local news flowing thanks to a very old business formula — paid advertising. Ads are a form of news, too. The butcher’s special at the grocery store is a big weekly headline for us. And, so is the shopping specials at the local hardware store and other local shops. For instance, it’s holiday shopping season right now and our local advertisers are beginning to offer some great gift giving ideas.

For the benefit of more than just this local newspaper, please don’t take your shopping money out of town. Support our advertisers who support you, local jobs, our schools and our charities. They pay local taxes.

Truth be told, we never have enough paid advertising for the week’s newspaper and we always find more news around town than we have space to print it. How many pages we print each week is determined by how many ads we sell. Ink, paper and postage cost real money. But the real expense at newspapers is the people who gather the news, report it and hold themselves to a very high standard of credibility, accuracy, accountability and independence.

Newspapers are one of the most backwards business enterprises there is. First, we don’t charge for more than 80 percent of what we do. We’re like a restaurant that gives free food away or a gas station that gives free refills. Stranger than that, we absolutely never let our advertisers tell us what news to print or not to print. This newspaper may get its revenues from advertising but it gets its value from being a trustworthy news source. Our reputation is not for sale.

We are writing about all this because questions about our newspapers are brought to our attention almost every day in casual conversation with our readers. We are asked what else can be done to keep the local newspaper open for business and in print.

We have a simple reply — please support our local advertisers and encourage more local businesses to join them in these pages. We’ll take care of the rest. Thank you.

 

Flowers of the forest for 2013

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Throughout their lives, all of the people in this annual tribute were connected to Idyllwild.

And because these are such small communities, many of the names that appear in Town Crier obituaries have appeared in past pages of the Town Crier when those people were alive. In that sense, they live on in the written history of our community, as well as in the memories of the people they left behind.

They were volunteers for one of the many organizations on the Hill, they were friends, they were relatives of a close friend, they were co-workers, they were fellow students and they were family. They were part of our community.

The Town Crier pauses to memorialize in its secondnewspaper of the new year the names of 28 people who died in 2013:

Sid Acton
Lori Alexander
Kathleen Barnes
Lucas Alan Dunn
Tim E. Faulkner
Donald J. Harrison
Elizabeth Courtney
Haworth Windsong
Brenda Joyce Herndon Miller
Alvar Kauti
Patricia Arlene Kent
Viv Larson
Emily “Mimi” LeGate
Thomas McCullough
Nancy Jane Monroe
Donald Ellis Moore
Allan Morphett
Kevin Edward Nay
Richard Lewis “Wayne” Parker
Laura-Eloise Ray
Joseph Rodriguez
Robert P. Stearns
Dorothy Swain Lewis
William R. Van Cleave
Kendall Vaught
Betty Louise Webley
Elaine Baty Weisheit
John Woolley
Doug Yagaloff

Flowers of the forest for 2012

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Throughout their lives, all of the people in this annual tribute were connected to Idyllwild.

And because these are such small communities, many of the names that appear in Town Crier obituaries have appeared in past pages of the Town Crier when those people were alive. In that sense, they live on in the written history of the community, as well as in the memories of the people they left behind.

They were volunteers for one of the many organizations on the Hill, they were friends, they were relatives of a close friend, they were co-workers, they were fellow students and they were family. They were part of our community.

The Town Crier takes pause to memorialize in its first newspaper of the new year the names of 34 people who died in 2012:

Morton S. Boss
Lucile Hower Tanner Cies
Milton R. French
Robert Paul Garron
Francis “Frank” Gorzny
Viola Hallacy
Seamus Patrick Harding
Clesson H. Harvey
Rhonda Herger
Judith Hermanson
Gerald (Jerry) R. Holsclaw Sr.
Steve Hudson
James Janopoulos
Karen Rae Levitt
Ann Lumsden
William “Bill” Martin
Bill Matthews
Barbara McCay
Jane C. Miller
Maggie Morphett
Robert John Muir
Patricia Joann Norrell
Diane Olsen
Richard “Scotty” Oyen
Patricia Ann Parish
Shirley Mae Petkin
Max “Mackie” Rana
Irene E. Samaniego-Greisen
Percy Frederick Herman Schultz
Doug Selby
Skylir Leeland Perry Selkirk
Marcia (Parady) Torrey-Jay
Lolita Mae Watkins
Helen Marie Webster Weisbrod

Alan Wayne Drotar and Gordon Price passed away in December 2011.

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